Date Published: 9/19/2016
Hello, today, I want to share with you something that I learnt recently which is how to be myself.
Yet, you can't be yourself if you don't know, understand, and accept yourself first. Find the time to learn upon what you value and take time to consider what makes up the "essence" of who you are.
As part of this, contemplate your life and choices. Stop worrying about the worst that could happen, especially in social situations.
So what if you fall flat on your face? Or get spinach stuck in your teeth? Or accidentally head butt your date when leaning in for a kiss? Learn to laugh at yourself both when it happens and afterward. What have you got to hide? We're all imperfect, growing, learning human beings.
If you feel ashamed or insecure about any aspect of yourself and you feel that you have to hide those parts of you, whether physically or emotionally then you have to come to terms with that..You can always see the appearances others wish to portray publicly but you won't ever see what's really going on behind their facades in their apparently perfect world.
By comparing yourself to others, you give their image-portrayal way too much power and reduce your own worth. It's a useless activity.. just be you and be proud.Some of them will like you and some of them won't.
Either attitude is as likely to be right or wrong. It's next-to-impossible to be yourself when you're caught up in constantly wondering "Do they think I'm funny? Does she think I'm fat? Do they think I'm dumb?" To be yourself, you've got to let go of these concerns and just let your behavior flow. Just because someone says they don't like something about you doesn't mean it's bad or you need to change it.
It really depends on what it is, often it's a matter of preference. Just be you and you will find so much interesting things and life will be more pleasant to live.