Wish for patty, young mother to two children while she battles cancer, for the second time

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Patty Fong is a long time friend of mine, and possibly one of the nicest humans I have ever had the privilege of meeting.

Patty has two kids, 9 and 12 and her husband, Simon.

In 2017 Patty was diagnosed with Breast Cancer. But she just refused to believe that it would kill her. She fought. And she fought hard. For 8 months Patty underwent Chemotherapy, Radiation, a double mastectomy and Lymphnode clearance. Her kids were 7 and 3 at the time, and it broke her family from the stress. BUT. After undergoing all of this, her family and herself spent the next 12 months with pyschologists and they rebuilt their family stronger then ever before.
Patty thought that was the worst over, and beat Breast Cancer.
But the Universe has sadly had other plans and 4 weeks ago Patty started to feel unwell.
She went to get blood tests done, and was contacted that day to go straight to the hospital.
Patty was given a new blow in life, and has Acute Lymhoblastic Leukemia. Completely unrelated to her previous Breast cancer – but quite frankly the shittest luck ever.
She was told she had two weeks. But the world underestimates Patty, and 4 weeks later she is here, and the doctors say at least a few months!
Patty on the other hand still refuses to admit that this is what she needs to accept, and is meeting this head on because she says if she accepts this, then what hope is there?.
She is undergoing aggressive treatment, but also during this has decided to go a little inward, and has found a love of meditation from which she says its like she can block out the bleak outcome the Doctors are giving, and she can try and heal in her own way, inside out as well as utilising all of the western medicine.

Patty desperately wants to do a weeklong retreat with Joe Dispensa, and there is one coming up in Dallas, in August. He specialises in meditation, and mindset when it comes to trauma and illness Products | Dallas Week Long Advanced Retreat August 2024 (drjoedispenza.com)
Now I’m not asking this to be funded – I’m sure there are many people you get with sad stories approaching you, and Patty would absolutely not reach out and do this herself.
What I am trying to find is different ideas of how I can help get her there – Ideally with her family, but primarily so that she can have this wish of hers granted.

I would love any ideas no matter how radical they are – I’m not the type of girl to accept impossible as an answer so I’m trying all avenues to see how I could get this to happen for her sake, and for her families.

Thanks again for taking the time to read – albeit longer then I thought it was going to be wish for Patty

Its much appreciated

Would love a response, even if its just a you don’t have any ideas, but wish her luck – she needs all the well wishes coming her way to beat this

Sarah Holmes




Wish for patty, young mother to two children while she battles cancer, for the second time